Ouch! Did it really hurt? Yup!! Falling for wrong person always does hurt. Be, it fall by a playful push of your best pal or falling for a person.
But what worse is seeing you still drooling over your “HOT EX”. No way, my friend. This is not the way. It’s over, now just get rid of your relationship. There is no point to just think about the person for whom you don’t matter at all. Getting over a breakup is tough but here, I wanna guide you to kick you out of this dark tunnel where right not you are trapped in and what to do after a breakup. Here, I promise you a plenty of light. And trust me, life really looks beautiful from the other edge. So let’s began.
- CONTACT DELETE ALERT:-
Dear, life is too short to keep checking on your girlfriend /boyfriend’s whatsapp last seen status and wishing to see his/her chat screen with the words “Typing…”Oh, come on! Be a sport! And free some of your phone memory and enjoy your breakup. Anyway, someone has rightly said-
Ek jayega tabhi to dusra aayega!
- PUT YOUR FITNESS FIRST:-
I know all those lovey-dovey dates were an icing on the cake part of your relationship. But now, you’ve got some time, go and have a look at yourself in the mirror. Now it’s time to work out. Shed out some weight and relax.
Your fitness will open the door for many to knock on your door.
8-MAKE NEW FRIENDS!
Tired of all the sympathy talks and the condolences? I bet your affirmation. But since your old pals care for you, this was the part of the package. Why not take a break from them and indulge with new random people who have no idea about the shit going on in your life. No one’s is gonna judge you there!
Old wine is fine, but how about vodka on the dine?
7-DONT TRY TO FIND THEM IN EVERY NEXT PERSON YOU MEET:-
Your girlfriend and boyfriend smelled the same. He/she wore that Rayban too. He/she always held my hand like that. Oops! Just stop it being so silly. Live your life the way you wish and let them live the life the way they wish.
Kick out the dart accumulating around your mind and set yourself free.
6-STOP GOING DOWN THAT MEMORY AISLE:-
Flashback! Flashback! Flashback!
I know all of the sweetest memories of yesterday are etched in your heart with a permanent marker. But why not look forward to your remaining joyful life ahead? There is no point remained in getting back with your ex
Stop walking down that memory aisle. Invest your free energy somewhere else.
- INDULGE IN A SPORT:-
Shed the shit out! Indulge in your favorite sport. Sweat till you get thirsty! Indulging in your favorite sport will help you to release a neurotransmitter named endorphin, a hormone linked to healthy brain function and fighting anxiety.
Feeling the blues lately? Sport is your answer.
- DO CRAZY STUFF:-
I am sure you don’t wanna be that boring grandparent who has got no tale to share with their grandchildren. And this is the time to make best memories, my friend!
Go crazy! Dance. Drink. Pass out. Swear. Have an affair. Follow your heart. Sing loudly. Kiss random people!
Trust me; it’s utterly insane to lead a sane life.
- SHARE YOUR HEART OUT- ONCE AND FOR ALL!
Do you laugh at the same joke over and over again? No, right? So why cry over the same thing every time?
Say what’s in your heart. Share it with your best buddy, but stop ranting over it your past. Just get over your relationship problems and try to find the true meaning of love.
Who likes a crying baby, anyway?
- STAY HAPPY:-
Of course for your own good, but what comes as a surprise is- IT KILLS THEM. Literally your happiness gonna kill your ex. It will be a virtual murder, you see! (No death sentence, he he!)
Now let them rest in hail!
- LOOK FOR A NEW LOVE INTEREST:-
Of course!!!! Your life aint over yet. Most people would ask you to embrace singledom for a while yet I contradict.
Look for someone who can fan the flames of fire that your heart is burning.
It’s one life so why should we waste it. Right!!!! Now cheers!!
And if ever your next person too leaves you, just don’t give up!
READ. FOLLOW. REPEAT and keep smiling and rocking.
Maitri Jhaveri-is an avid reader and a paramedic student. She lives in Ahmedabad, India.